This constant fear of making decisions hasn’t always been my biggest fear. First it was clowns, then snakes, then spiders. Now, well, it’s just a huge accumulation of all of these things.
The fear of making decisions is the one thing that has scared me the most since I started high school. I don’t really know why. Maybe it’s the fact that I’m scared that if I make a decision that people won’t agree with it. Or maybe it’s because I can never stick to one and always end up changing it repeatedly.
Recently, this fear has come into full effect. With having to decide between colleges, I don’t know what I am going to do. I am literally scared to death of having to make this decision. I know that I can always go back and change things, but if I can’t ever make a decision for me…how am I going to be able to make tougher decisions in the future?
I can totally relate to you with your fear...especially with the deciding between colleges part. For me, I think it's more of the fear that what I decide to do will be the wrong decision and I will ruin my chance of living how I should. I guess the only way past this fear is to understand that even when you make a decision that you don't like, there is always either a way around it or a way to live with it.
ReplyDeleteI understand how you feel. I made my decision for college really quickly but I still fear that I made the wrong decision. What if nursing doesn't work out? Now you've got me stressed. :P
ReplyDeleteI agree!! College is such a tough thing to decide on. I sometimes fear making decisions as well because I am afraid of people not liking the decision I made or not agreeing with it or something, just go with your gut and do it! haha
ReplyDeleteMaking decisions is hard. How do we know we are doing what we really want if we haven't tried EVERYTHING else? Its especially hard to make such decisions that we can't take back or if it won't just effect us, but others too.
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